Views: 1233 Posts: 0 Started By: richy gee Last Poster: richy gee Last Post Date: Oct 17, 2016
October 17, 2016 ( Post 1 )

Homosexual, Bisi Alimi continues to count down to
his wedding and this time around he detailed how
he felt when he wore a dress for the first time and
how liberating he felt.

He wrote
Day 13 of 30 days to my wedding of 30 things to be
grateful for. The first time I put on a dress was at
university of Lagos. I was drafted to act a role at
the last minute as the character did not turn up. I
am sure @denrele_edun will remember this event.
We were acting for Atiku’s wife while she was
visiting. Many times after that, I have dressed up.
I dressed up hosting many gay parties in#Lagos.
In 1999, as a very young 24years old, I won the
glamorous Miss Gay Lagos. It was an honour. As a
man (yes, just in case some of you are confused)
wearing a dress and heels and stockings is
liberating for me.
I am not a woman and I do not want to be a
woman. When I wear dresses, I wear them as a
man and this is why it is very liberating for me. It
connects with my vulnerability. As an African
man, there is an expectation of what it means to
be a man. Wearing a dress is also a statement of
fuck you to patriarchy. I don’t do conformity. I
live in my head and in my world. I would go
naked and take a picture of it if I feel so good
about it. Then came last year and I met
@msposhp and she changed my world. She made
me understand that beauty has no gender and a
dress is a dress is a dress.
The joy I feel when I take on the character of Ms
Posh is overwhelming. She takes me to another
level. Also [email protected] makes her up, she
transforms into this beautiful woman I have been
dying to meet and know. Ms Posh is an act, she is
only real in my head and in your imagination.
That imagination if you let it loose will change the
way you see women and treat women.
As a man in a dress, I have experience sexual
harassment and verbal abuse and to me it is
interesting how just a dress changed the way
people treat me. Unfortunately, Ms Posh is not
invited to me wedding, but I am sure, she will be
standing next to me in my head when I say ‘I Do’
to my man.#samesexmarriage

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